I was in elementary school when I saw the 8th-grader’s-production
of Annie. Between the classic red curly wig, shaved-bald-head of Daddy
Warbucks, and the punchy rendition of ‘Hard Knock Life’ stomped out by angsty
middle schoolers, I knew I wanted to be up there. I was able to achieve my goal
by playing Tom Sawyer when I was in the 8th grade. In high school I
firmly cemented my identity as a theatre kid by being involved in every
production possible while leaving other extracurriculars that used to fill my
time behind. When I was 16, I knew I wanted to go to college to study Acting
and specifically Musical Theatre.
This may be the point where you are asking yourself,
“Jerome, what does this have to do with a Genetic Counseling?” And I totally
understand this question. It is the question I have been asking myself since
the moment I pictured myself even possibly switching careers and attempting to
join the field of Genetic Counselling. However, over this last year of
course-work and my first clinical rotation, the answer has been revealed to me.
One of the biggest lessons I learned in my acting training
was that no matter what character you are portraying, the most interesting and
compelling version is the one that you bring the most of yourself to. Think of
your favorite actors and the roles that they inhabit so well. Many actors can
be transformative, but the ones that often ring the truest are done by performers
who always bring themselves to a character. This parallels with one of the
biggest lessons I’ve learned over the last year and that is the value a
counselor can bring to a session, especially one that has many psycho-social
considerations. Sometimes the most important thing you can do is just be a
human and stay present with the human sitting across from you.
Often as counselors we need to interpret complex topics involving
genetics and testing methodologies. Combine this with a patient who may have
recently received a shocking cancer diagnosis, or a parent who just wants to
help their medically complex child. Sometimes reviewing the family history
brings up complex emotions surrounding loved ones that have passed and
relationships that have changed. It is crucial in these moments to inhabit this
space of discomfort, allow the feelings and silence to happen, then offer the
tissue and assure the patient everything they are feeling is okay. The best way
I know how to be of service to patients in these moments is by bringing my
whole self into the room and staying present.
In my undergraduate program we studied Stanislavski’s “An
Actor Prepares”. Konstantin Stanislavski was a titan of the Moscow Art Theatre
whose methodologies catalyzed theatre and the craft of acting in the 20th
century. He is best known for concepts about identifying a character’s
Objective or what the character wants. Often the best scenes occur when two
characters’ objectives are in conflict with one another.
In our second semester Genetic Counseling course we learned
about the Reciprocal-Engagement Model (REM) as a foundational practice theory.
I quickly started to see the parallels between Stanislavski’s Objectives and
the REM’s Process Goals, or the desired genetic counseling outcomes. Continuing
to fall into place, the REM’s Strategies and Behaviors aligned with acting’s
ideas of Tactics or the approaches an actor uses to achieve their objective. The
obstacles that characters face in excellent dramas often present can be seen in
the uniqueness each patient brings to a session and how a counselor navigates each
individual session supporting patient autonomy while ensuring they are making
an informed decision.
This is all to say that wherever you find yourself in your
Genetic Counseling journey, be sure to bring your whole self. It is easy to
compare yourself to others and the traditional paths folks have taken to arrive
in Genetic Counseling, often with a pre-med background and a fresh bachelor's
degree in science. Take it from a proud recipient of a BFA (Bachelors of Fine
Arts) that the niche passions you pursue can still inform and assist in your
journey into new dreams and goals.